When you stop looking, it will come.

Well, I don’t necessarily agree with this statement, but that is just me.  I think that if you want something in life no matter what it is, even love, you have to look for it.   

If you are looking for love, you need to put yourself out there in order to be noticed.  Pursuing love does not mean that you have to be aggressive or needy with your prospective dates. You don’t have to wear a neon sign around your neck that says, “Single and looking for Love.”  It simply means that you are willing to connect with more people and that you are receptive to being loved.   When you start actively looking for quality prospects, you greatly increase your odds of finding love.   

If you are not happy with your single status, do not wait for true love to fall into your lap.  Get out there and make it happen. You have the power to change your life.   Just relax, keep a positive attitude and do not ever stop smiling, you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

And for the rest of us that are happy with our single lifestyle of freedom and flexibility, let us keep doing what makes us happy.

XOXO